Bread and rolls have been enjoyed for centuries. They are staples in the world of food as an accompaniment, and as a meal on their own.
Though usually served at the beginning of a lunch or dinner, bread is not eaten in any particular order. It is not considered a course on its own - even though it has its own plate.
At two recent etiquette training events, a lively discussion ensued from the opening lesson’s title: “Eating your Roll or Bread — Danger: What’s your method saying about you?”
As we demonstrated what it looks like when a person rips and tears his roll apart, stabs it with his fork, gets bread crumbs all over the table, or starts eating the bread the minute she sits down at the table, the participants agreed in laughter that these actions might reveal silent questions about the diner’s habits (and character).
We proceeded, resolved that no one wants to appear as an aggressive, messy, hungry or a confused bread eater pondering over which tool to use to slather as much butter as is possible on a full piece of bread. After all, if you are on a job interview, taking a client to lunch, or dining with your grandmother, those conclusions might inadvertently leave a false impression about you.
Let's see how your method compares to the correct method.
A bread plate and butter knife or spreader are placed to the left of the main plate and above the forks at each person’s place setting. The sole purpose? To signify that there is a place to position bread and to butter your bread or roll. It is a separate working area from your dinner plate.
Now for the most important part - the bite!
Now that you know the correct way of eating bread during a meal, here are actions to avoid:
Many times, you find yourself eating bread as if it is a first course (which it is not). Some restaurants even set a bread basket on the table first thing.
It's fine to indulge if you're too hungry to wait. However, if your host has not begun eating, it may be best to wait. Remember, always follow your host to begin eating. Once her napkin is in her lap, the meal is started.