These days, knowing how to dress can be difficult. There are so many "attires" that blur the lines of casual and formal it's amazing you can leave your home wearing anything suitable.
And when it comes to business dress, the lines are just as blurred between professional and business casual.
Everywhere you go, you leave an impression. That impression comes from what people notice first about you. Most often, your clothing.
It may be fortunate or unfortunate, but the first time someone sees you, he or she is forming an instant opinion about you based solely on how you look.
Clothes give us, and other people, a feeling of who we are. A lawyer, a bricklayer, a student - each of them have their own style.
So what happens when your style isn't telling the truth about who you are? It may be time to change it.
Work environments are as diverse as the people who inhabit them. And, some might say, dressing to be compatible with your work environment is more confusing than ever.
Your office may require professional attire, but when you meet for lunch with a client, he shows up in jeans.
There's nothing wrong with this. Even if you knew he would wear jeans, you still must abide by your company's policy.
However, when working with clients, especially in a sales capacity or as a representative of your organization, it's important to meet them where they are. If your style of dress isn't in sync, try and let your personality match your client's formal or casual style without compromising your "bottom line" standards of professional attire.
Put your client or visitor at ease with a sincere compliment, or just a friendly smile and warm greeting.
But if your company's dress code is loosely interpreted by management, it's anyone's guess how to dress.
In this case, and even with strict dress code policies, dress how you want others to perceive you. Do you want to project a polished and professional image? A good rule of thumb is to err on the side over over-dressed rather than under-dressed.
Just because conservative or professional dress is required doesn't mean you can't add a splash of color (tie, shirt, or jewelry) to compliment your gregarious personality. Claim your business or casual style with accessories that are uniquely you.
Wear suits made in colors or fabrics that show your tasteful individuality. If your budget allows, you can have a tailor make them for you.
And if your workplace is super casual, you still might want to keep khakis or a skirt as your wardrobe staples to help you lean more to the "business casual" end. Especially if you are working your way to a management position.
Adhering to, or freely interpreting, your company's dress code policy does not mean you have to give up your own personality. Nor does it mean you have to dress in a manner that is off-putting to clients or vendors.
A few words of caution: Don't stray too far from the norm in your workplace. If the environment is very conservative, and you are not, you may need to compromise a bit.
Ultimately, you're aiming to be the best version of you!
Another aspect of making a good first - and lasting - impression is how you carry yourself.
If you don't know how to dress for comfort, or if your style is not in sync with who you are, you will not present yourself with confidence and authenticity.
Find out who you are, and dress accordingly.
Your clothes speak volumes. And remember, trends come and go, but your style will always be with you.
Here's to a fabulous you!